How to become and remain a super, loving mother & grandmother.. Indeed the best….

You qualify if you are always defending your children and their children/families (grandchildren) every time they wrong others or even engage in untoward behavior.

When it is reported that they are involved negatively in actions /acts and you demand for any evidence incriminating them before you can correct them or even advice and caution them, then you are excellent mom indeed! .

When you teach them not to respect public and private properties by turning aside when you learn that they often misbehave and even break private property fences to steal or even break houses where they are prime suspects given other due considerations and facts and you still demand evidence before you can act properly at least to harague such misdemeanors, then you qualify to earn the ‘most of passionate and best mom of the county’ award…..

Best and loving mom, keep loving your children up to the time that the destiny you are passionately charting for your beloved, family & posterity will cross lines with life reality as encapsulated in the wise saying, “asiye funzwa na mamaye atafunzwa na ulimerngu,” (“he who is not mentored/taught by his or her mother shall be mentored /taught by the world”).

After this reality comes home to roost in your and family’s life, perhaps too late in the day, then you – the epitome of a loving, caring current-generation mom- shall realize that genuine, prudent love is best spiced with wisdom and God’s teachings..you will finally meet the term ‘tough love.’

You will perhaps, eventually, embrace the tough reality of the tough, responsible love and not just blind, emotion and peer pressure-driven love that is currently infecting many modern – day moms